我82年出生，武汉的，没恋爱过，单身快40年了，最近，缘于父母的催促，更缘于身边亲朋对我的疏远，不知为何，当我一个人独处时，我感觉特别孤独。
我个子不高，只有158厘米，真正的爱情是物质之外的，是不需要婚姻的强制，是精神层面的高度融合和信赖，是心与心的交融、是相互的自发的为对方无私奉献的情感和保护欲望，不需要太多的语言，一个眼神或一个字的默契，眉目传情。一起看日出，一起抵抗风雨一起享受生活一起憧憬未来一起负责终老…

幻想和现实，是两个不同的思想。很多女孩子，期望找一个，又高又帅又多金的，对她好的男人。可能吗？没有十全十美的事！家庭条件好的男人，他会选门当户对，年轻的女丫！长的漂亮的！家庭条件差的，你又看不上？所以，拖着，年纪上越拖越大！

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I was born in Wuhan in 1982. I have never been in love. I have been single for almost 40 years. Recently, because of the urging of my parents and the alienation of my relatives and friends, I feel very lonely when I am alone. I am not tall, only 158 centimeters, true love is beyond material, does not need the compulsion of marriage, is a high degree of spiritual integration and trust, is the blending of heart and heart, is mutual spontaneous selfless dedication to each other's feelings and desire to protect.Do not need too much language, a look or a word of tacit understanding, flirting. Watch the sunrise together, resist the wind and rain together, enjoy life together, look forward to the future together, be responsible for the end of life. Fantasy and reality are two different thoughts. Many girls expect to find a tall, handsome and rich man who is good to her. Is it possible? Nothing is perfect! A man with good family conditions will choose a well-matched young woman! Beautiful! Poor family conditions, and you don't like it? So, procrastinating, getting older and older!